be brave?hmmmm....

aku ada terjumpa entri kat blog sape tah..jom baca...

Be brave!!!!
Fear of rejection. That's what holding most people from admitting their feelings or confessing their heart. We fear being turned down. Fearing the word 'failure / loser' printed on our face after the rejection. Cursing ourselves later for being too bold, going on bended knees in front of tht person. And worry to risk the comfortable friendship that might be slightly awkward after the confession. So much things to worry. So little time.But if you don't tell the person now, would you one day, after 10 years, be wondering and asking to yourself questions like.." what if i had tell what i feel about her/him..?" ... and " what if she/he had said yes..?".When i was in matriculation, there was this guy who works as a cook in the cafeteria. I know him as the guy who ties a piece of cloth over his head, smiling shyly each time i place my order. One day, i went to eat by myself, waiting for my usual order -nasi goreng pattaya- while watching tv. He came from the kitchen, holding in his hand my plate of rice and place it in front of me, which was a bit weird because usually we have to go and get the food ourselves. When i look down at my nasi goreng pattaya, it took quite a while for me to register the words scribbled with ketchup on it. It reads ' I love u' with 'love' written in the shape of heart. I sit looking straight at my plate, not sure how to react. Should i politely smile while cheerfully wave to him, saying sthg like " thank you,.....hehehehe!" ( which sound terribly stupid when i think of it now ). Or should i pretend not noticing the words and began hungrily crushing his work of art with fork and spoon? What i remember was thinking to myself as i eat.." what a creative way to express one's feeling... "The point here is, be brave and say it out. Honestly and humbly. Maybe the person would respond by saying sthg like.." thank you, but i like us better as friends..", at least you have tried. By keeping it inside while you still got the chance, what good will it do. You never know what you might be missing by letting the opportunity pass by without you trying to take action to it. And if your honest confession resulted with disappointment, at least in the eyes of that person hearing you sincerely pouring your heart content, her impression of you has changed. She will see you differently, silently admiring your act of bravery. (well,..it is one act of courage, how many of us dare enough to admit our feelings to the person we like upfront..?)So..to everyone who's still very single, if your eyes and heart are set on someone, ( who is also single .. ;]), don't waste time hesitating. Get to know that person, pray hard to God may HE will lead and guide the way, and think positively..insyaAllah, if your intention is good, good things will come to you. And if that person prefer a 'friendship' instead of sthg more than that, it's okay..don't be discouraged, at least you have found one friend. And someone else is yet to be met...like the saying i read some time ago.." if you don't get what you want, just sit still and be patient, because God is thinking of something better for you.."What that guy did sure was sweet, and that made him remembered till now. His readiness to be bold and confess, knowing there's a risk of rejection but he still did it anyway..

*Kelakar pulak bila baca entri ni. erm,aku pun kagum dengan keberanian lelaki ni. Be brave! Betul gak! Tapi aku rasa entri ni lebih sesuai dgn lelaki berbanding perempuan. Dan aku rasa sedikit pelik kalau perempuan yg meluahkan perasaan dulu. Mungkin ada terutamanya pada zaman sekarang~zaman di mana perempuan lebih berani. Zaman di mana perempuan berani merampas hak orang lain dan dengan angkuhnya berkata “Best woman will win”~

Bagi aku x salah kalau nak jadi berani skalipun tapi biarlah berpada-pada. Jangan sampai menjatuhkan maruah sendiri. Tak jatuh maruah ke kalau merayu-rayu cinta seorang lelaki yg tidak mencintainya? Aku tak la kondem perempuan2 macam ni sebab diorang mesti ada alasan yang tersendiri. Mungkin diorang akan cakap “Salah ke kite dapatkan kebahagian kite sendiri?” Tak salah mencari kebahagian sendiri sedangkan itu sendiri dituntut agama. Cuma jalan untuk mendapatkan kebahagian itu yg kelihatan ‘salah’. Aku pun x berani nak cakap SALAH sebab aku x berada dalam situasi seseorang tu. Cuma aku nak cakap, berfikirlah secara rasional, BAHAGIA KE KITA, REDHA KE KITE KALAU KITE MENDAPAT KEBAHAGIAN ITU DENGAN MENGHANCURKAN KEBAHAGIAN ORANG LAIN?
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